Basically, a mother writes from her perspective, falling for her children's whines for a Nintendo or else they'd be 'left out'. What happens? Hell for her. She had read articles that praised the Nintendo DS, saying that it'd 'bump your mental ability'. So she bought it and the kids loved her. Yay! Too early to celebrate. The kids started to become addicted and fought over it. They desperately searched for it and found it when the mother hid it from them. They were hooked. When they lost the charger, the madness slowly faded and the house became 'DS-free' and more calm over the situation. The charger gets found, madness starts again, back to hell. The mother, finally fed up, gave the DS away and was hated for a brief period by her children, but after another short while, they seemed to have forget about it. To be honest, the mother said, it did have good times, like when she could distract them with the gaming system and do something she wanted, like get them a haircut. However, what does this have to say about gaming, especially for little kids?

I finally buckled to buy a Nintendo DS Lite after considerable and sustained pressure from my children.

What finally did it was a suggestion from my oldest child that without a Nintendo in her school bag, she would be unable to fit in at school. (Yes, I know - oldest trick in the book. And I fell for it.)

It was that, plus reading a piece in one newspaper which suggested that if you regularly played Brain Trainer on your Nintendo, you'd bump up your mental acuity.

And another piece from child expert Dr Tanya Byron, of all people, which, as far as I recall, actually suggested that regular use of interactive toys such as the DS helped your children to be caring and creative.

I also had a sneaking and totally selfish wish to be Mother of the Year. Which I was, for about a day.

When the pale blue, £150 Nintendo finally arrived last November, fresh from Hong Kong (I had bought it on the net), crammed with a 'bundle' of 20 games including Brain Trainer, Fifa 08, and Nintendogs, my children hugged me tightly.

"Thank you, thank you, Mummy," they chorused. "We LOVE you!"
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    The Don May 6, 08
    I can confirm this. My 6 year old cousin is completely addicted to his DS. I think because of his addiction, adds to the fact that he cannot read yet. Video games exposed at a young age is extremely dangerous and can possibly effect their future.
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      StarJet May 6, 08
      Shit, man! Can't read but is addicted to video games? That's the first I've heard.
      What I'm saying is, gaming consoles, especially portable ones, should not be given to small kids. These problems won't occur then, would they?
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    Synergized May 6, 08
    I think the big factor in this one is the fact that they had to share.
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    Linkin Park Fan May 6, 08
    Ah amn I was about to post this but didn't because I thought it was to long...

    Anyways snergy, sharing sucks. I would know I have had to share a SNES, PS1, PS2 and PS3 with two brothers. Luckily we got over that fighting to play phase back with the PS1.
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    tallteen86 May 6, 08
    I've seen this posted somewhere....Maybe on a forum, not Gamegrep....

    Meh, kids get addicted to 'cool' stuff sometimes...It depends on the kid....My bro games way more than I do (mostly on the same games....Currently it is Lego Star Wars that has him obsessed).....
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    TurMoiL911* May 6, 08
    I don't think this is a matter of Nintendo turning children into monsters, as it is that mother is raising a bunch of brats. Those kids should be thankful their mom bought them a DS, because if that was me, they would find themselves put up for adoption.
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      Subtle Demise May 7, 08
      Yeah, funny how parents these days will always find a scapegoat instead of owning up to their own crappy parenting. I swear if I see another article on here about bratty kids, I'm going to go into a blind rage.
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    Enhance May 6, 08
    I'd rather my kids get addicted to the Nintendo DS than drugs or alcohol. There are so many bad things out there that kids get addicted to and die over everyday and this mom is complaining about them fighting over a gaming system?
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    Miss Razz May 6, 08
    She bought one DS for her four children and wondered why they fought over it? Young children don't like sharing things, no matter how much Sesame Street says that they do.


    Sounds like another case of a parent using video-games (or in some cases, TV) to "raise" their children, then blaming said games when it doesn't quite work out the way they planned.
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      StarJet May 7, 08
      Yeah, kiddies aren't that good at sharing. Sesame Street = LAWL. And just think. One kid getting only 1/4th the time. Ooh, the horror!
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    Bale Fire May 6, 08
    Indeed, having 4 kids and only one console is always going to start fights. Damn I get annoyed if my brother is on my PS3 when I want to have a go (something I didn't have to deal with until recently)
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    joshuam May 6, 08
    we have four DS's a ink one a silver one a white ds lite and a black ds lite
    so we dont argue over it
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    black doom May 6, 08
    One console between four. If she couldn't get at least two, she shouldn't have gotten one. My brother and myself have seperate consoles and there is still a tension.

    It is a funny story, but when playing the blame game people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
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    Murray3 May 6, 08
    Nothing to do with the DS, if it were a sports ball or a bike they still would have fought, some kids just don't know how to share, that's why I made sure my brother got a DS, so he wouldn't be playing mine like he did with the GBA (which also helped with his anger issues and after alot of trial and error in New Super Mario Bros he learned to deal with frustration)
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    phowell23 May 6, 08
    Her giving 1 DS to share between 4 children is like her having 2 share her car with 4 people. im sure she would b pretty pissed too. She brought this upon herself
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      Bri May 6, 08
      Epic statement.

      The DS is definitely not a Playstation. Playstations can actually be shared among a family of children, with the multi-tap, you've got a chance for four to play at once. With the DS, no such luck. If one of the kids takes it to school, the other suffers. If one of the kids goes on a camping trip, the other suffers. With portable systems, each kid should get a system of their own. If it's too expensive, invest in a Wii.
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    McClubbin May 6, 08
    Psychologically speaking, it seems as though she projected her inability of predicting this outcome onto the DS. It seems as though her desire to gain her childrens' approval got the best of her and clouded her judgment. And I quote, "I also had a sneaking and totally selfish wish to be Mother of the Year." Is playing the blame game really necessary when you lack the foresight/common sense required for this scenario?
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    BANDITO ATTACK May 6, 08
    dont buy one ds for 4 kids to share, jackass.
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    Final Blade May 6, 08
    This has nothing to do with nintendo, it can easily be the same for the PSP or any console in-general.
    But like said above buying 1 for 4 kids is just asking for trouble.
    So she should know better than that.
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    Alvaroduck May 6, 08
    The problem is that she bought one, handheld gaming system to share amongst 4 children. Obviously there was going to be fighting. She should have bought a console like a Wii instead - atleast that way they could have enjoyed it at the same time.

    It is not the DS's fault, it is not some kind of demon like she is making out. They could've easily been fighting over something else - a TV remote for example.

    Oh, and lol @ "Gabriel became obsessed with playing the football game Fifa 08: over meals, on the loo, in bed at midnight." and then "In the end, last week, I walked into my local branch of Cancer Research UK and gave it away.". I hope she cleaned it first.
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    Storm May 7, 08
    Wow, sometimes common sense takes a backseat, which is the case here. It's a shame, really. I mean, I've been quite addicted to my DS, but then again I don't share it with anyone.

    Guess what's on those kids birthday/X-Mas lists?

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    Capn Droid May 7, 08
    The problem is not the game, but the children's personalities that match the game perfectly. If it's a bit imperfect, the child will like the game, but not go crazy over it.
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    R1DDL3S May 7, 08
      It is all the mom's fault for being cheap and not getting them all one, then there would be no problem...just get a Wii and some extra controllers
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    Twisted May 8, 08
    They may have gone nuts. But they still got smarter.
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    Vermillion* May 8, 08
    Lack of control. How in the world did the mother raised her children in the first place 0_o!? I have a lot of small cousins, my aunt is strict and she knows how to raise children. When one of my oldest cousins (he is 12) got his DS, the smaller ones (6 - 9) didn't jealous or anything.

    I think this madness has more to do with the way the mother raises her children instead of the fact that she only got one DS.
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      R1DDL3S May 10, 08
        My bratty half-brother never stopped asking to play my DS and PSP whenever I saw him, so he just got his own DS at the age of 7 for his birthday, that is all he does now
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    bk man May 9, 08
    well, it is not the mothers faults, it is the bratty fat kids fault.
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    Bluephionix May 9, 08
    It's the mother's fault that she couldn't raise her kids to share. If she did, then she wouldn't be blaming nintendo about this.

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